SURVIVE & THRIVE! Siri Lindley on Finding A Way

Sage & Mary B. Intro

Hey everybody, well welcome to the Tony Robbins podcast. We’re smiling, Sage Robbins is smiling nice, certainly because today we are sitting down with a dear friend of ours who also happens to be the author of this new book called “Finding a Way.” Siri Lindley, are you out there? Can you hear us?

I can hear you, and this is truly the best day ever, having the opportunity to spend time with the two of you who I love so dearly. So thank you for having me here, and I’m so looking forward to it.

Well, Siri, it’s such a treat to be with you. As Mary shared, you’re one of our dearest friends on this planet, a beloved sister. We’ve partnered on many projects, and I know that we’ll get into that here. Just so incredibly moved and touched that you poured your life experience and your own evolution and insights into this book, “Finding a Way.” We’ve already been texting and video messaging back and forth with you all morning, as often is the case for many mornings. But today it’s a special occasion because we are going to be talking about your book, Siri, “Finding a Way.” We’ve got a lot of questions, we know you have a lot of answers, and we look forward to just talking about this with you. Sister to sister, friend to friend, because this is a pretty meaningful book about a pretty meaningful life. Yes, so let’s get into it.

Well, thank you so much. Thank you so much for those words, and I just want to say this book wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for the influence and the examples set by all three of you. You’re such a huge part of this, so thank you.

Well, the third is Tony, and he will be joining and popping his head in here, I’m sure, shortly. Mary and I were having a conversation this morning. Why now, Siri? Why at this stage? Why do you consider “Finding a Way” to be a memoir or a handbook?

So, I’ll take you back just to a moment a few years ago when I was in the hospital, and I was fighting for my life, and you all were there for me, which I so appreciate. But there came a time where things got really tough, and I didn’t know if I actually was gonna make it. And in that kind of a moment, you know, you start reflecting on your life, and I started thinking about, you know, if I’m not here tomorrow, am I happy with the life that I lived? Did I live life in a way that mattered? And I started thinking about the things that would matter most to me, and it had nothing to do with the things I achieved or the money I made. It had to do with three things and the three most important questions. First one was, did I love with all my heart? What I meant by that is,

Introduction

Hey everybody, well welcome to the Tony Robbins podcast. We’re smiling, Sage Robbins is smiling nice, certainly because today we are sitting down with a dear friend of ours who also happens to be the author of this new book called “Finding a Way.” Siri Lindley, are you out there? Can you hear us?

I can hear you, and this is truly the best day ever, having the opportunity to spend time with the two of you who I love so dearly. So thank you for having me here, and I’m so looking forward to it.

Well, Siri, it’s such a treat to be with you. As Mary shared, you’re one of our dearest friends on this planet, a beloved sister. We’ve partnered on many projects, and I know that we’ll get into that here. Just so incredibly moved and touched that you poured your life experience and your own evolution and insights into this book, “Finding a Way.” We’ve already been texting and video messaging back and forth with you all morning, as often is the case for many mornings. But today it’s a special occasion because we are going to be talking about your book, Siri, “Finding a Way.” We’ve got a lot of questions, we know you have a lot of answers, and we look forward to just talking about this with you. Sister to sister, friend to friend, because this is a pretty meaningful book about a pretty meaningful life. Yes, so let’s get into it.

Well, thank you so much. Thank you so much for those words, and I just want to say this book wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for the influence and the examples set by all three of you. You’re such a huge part of this, so thank you.

Well, the third is Tony, and he will be joining and popping his head in here, I’m sure, shortly. Mary and I were having a conversation this morning. Why now, Siri? Why at this stage? Why do you consider “Finding a Way” to be a memoir or a handbook?

Siri’s Motivation

So, I’ll take you back just to a moment a few years ago when I was in the hospital, and I was fighting for my life, and you all were there for me, which I so appreciate. But there came a time where things got really tough, and I didn’t know if I actually was gonna make it. And in that kind of a moment, you know, you start reflecting on your life, and I started thinking about, you know, if I’m not here tomorrow, am I happy with the life that I lived? Did I live life in a way that mattered? And I started thinking about the things that would matter most to me, and it had nothing to do with the things I achieved or the money I made. It had to do with three things and the three most important questions.

Three Important Questions

First one was, did I love with all my heart? What I meant by that is, I want to know that when I loved someone, I told them. That when I loved someone, I showed them. I want to know that I loved myself, that I backed myself in every moment. I want to know that I loved what I did. And I thought, yeah, I’ve loved what I can love on such a deeper level.

The second one was, did I live fearlessly? Did I live a fearless life? And I looked back, and yeah, I did in some ways, but still, there were other things that I wanted to do that I didn’t because I was afraid.

The third one was, did I make a difference? Did I matter? And I know that I did, you know, I knew that I mattered, but did I really make the difference that I knew deep inside I was capable of making? And I hadn’t.

So I survived, and it’s a miracle that I’m here and I’m alive.

Finding Purpose

Facing death and finding purpose, and the gift in all of that is that I found my purpose, and I believe that this book, this book is my purpose. You know, between the front and the back cover, like this is my purpose and this is why I’m here and this matters so much to me. That’s why now, sorry.

I was up late last night reading this and early this morning. I’m embarrassed to say that I crammed it in there, but I did, and it’s that easy to read, and your authenticity, and the… you could tell that this was written with a level of purpose and intention. And to answer your question, and I know Siri did, yes, there’s an autobiographical element to it, yes, and the stories are there to kind of offer examples. But I was more surprised and I didn’t know when you sent me this, my very own signed copy, thank you very much, that it was so much of like that it had so many exercises. I would almost like you could almost call this a workbook, and I know it looks like a hardcover and it looks like it’s going to be this memoir about this little cowboy here, our friends here, Lindley. However, this is like a workbook, complete with prompts and writing exercises that even if you’re like, “I’m not the kind of person that does the exercises in a book,” your mind, your brain goes there because of the way that you’ve laid it out and the examples that you’ve given. And because you go first, um, the reader goes there with you. And I’m… I just feel so proud, as a wrong word, Siri, but as your friend, I’m just like, “Yes, you crushed it, you nailed it. I love it. I love it.” Thank you so much.

And I think you know sometimes we need someone that’s going to go first, and we can all remember a time in our lives, you know, even like jumping off a cliff into the water or something, you’re like, “No, I’m too scared, I’m too scared,” but…

Sharing Vulnerability

Somebody else does it, and it’s like, “Oh, okay.” And this is my way of saying, you know, let me get open and vulnerable, let me show you how I was scared, let me show you how I was, you know, doubtful. Let me share my story so that you can see yourself in me. And then let me take your hand and let me just ask you a few of these questions because maybe when you dig a little deeper into your own heart, your own mind, your own thoughts, you’ll discover something too that’s going to help you find a way through. That’s a beautiful lens and notion and possibly as a consideration.

Deepening Connection to Faith

Mary, we were talking about your faith chapter and how you deepened your own connection to source, and maybe that’s the universal hand that truly touches us, and that you touched upon throughout your life’s trajectory and throughout your own navigating of anxiety throughout the fear of the loss of your life. Maybe that’s the ultimate hand. I’m projecting right now, and I don’t even know that this is a question.

You’re spot on with that. I feel like faith in something else, faith in something greater than you, leads to faith in ourselves, right? Because when we have faith in something, and whatever that may be, I mean my belief is like anything that you believe is a support and energy, something that you know is greater than you that gives you this sense of comfort. Having that, whatever that means to you, it could be nature, it could be the universe, it could be God, whatever that means to you, it’s such a gift to have that because when you do, with that sense of faith, believing in that there’s something else out there, you will say yes to things that maybe you wouldn’t have otherwise. You will take a chance on things because if we believe that there’s some greater support out there, we’re more willing to say yes to things that we wouldn’t otherwise. And in that, in saying yes to these things and taking these things on, we are then proving to ourselves that, yes, I can. I can be afraid, but I can do it anyway, and it works out for me. So then this builds up this faith in yourself.

Creating Faith

In that, I created my faith in this feeling, this energy, this love. It’s all love that I knew would always be there for me. Now, whether that was true or not, me believing it served me. Believing it gave me courage. Believing it gave me strength. And so when I sometimes talk to people that say, “Oh, I don’t have faith,” it’s like, “But you do. You live your life with faith in the people around you and in yourself when you say yes to things.” And if we can appreciate that sense that we have, and I’ll call it faith, and if that serves us, if that gives us courage, if that leads us to doing things we normally wouldn’t, then why not? It’s beautiful. Faith is one of those things.

Organizing the Book

Siri, I love the way that you organize this book with the power line all the way through. So each chapter, if you guys haven’t read this yet, each chapter is something like the power of intention, health, presence, faith, and each chapter is kind of a little mini lesson in these forces that can really guide us and shape us and pull us through even the hardest challenges. And if you’ve ever heard Siri Lindley speak, if you’ve read her other book, if you’ve followed her on social media, if you are lucky enough as we are to know her as a person, as a friend, as a human, you know that Siri is her optimism is always at hand to the

Optimism and Self-Talk

That sometimes folks will say like, “Hey, is this lady serious? Is she just like over the top?” And we’re like, “No, this is really how she is.” But Siri, I have to tell you, and I know you always kind of make the case, Sage, for having a little grit in our lives too, yes, yes. There was a line in here, Siri, that really I think when you’re talking about your own vulnerability, that you offered in these pages. One of the lines here, you say, like, “What would I say to someone I love most if they were going through something tough? Would I say, ‘Come on, be happy, don’t suffer, get yourself together’?” And sometimes I feel like people like you and I, who are irrationally optimistic, have this pattern with ourselves that it’s like, just shut down the suffering, shut down when we know we’re not supposed to be feeling something. And it’s like, that’s how we talk to ourselves sometimes. And I think that my hallucination is that many folks listening who are also kind of achievers or great athletes or successful business folks or whoever happens to be listening out there watching today, that with that comes this kind of harshness, this little whip that we use on ourselves, although we would never use it to someone else. But I thank you for offering this lesson, and it’s just saying, it’s so important for people to get. So, could you talk to, do you see where I’m going with this?

Self-Expectations and Grit

And I totally do, and here’s the thing. For a long time, that was my superpower. This is my superpower. You know, something bad happens, well, just, you know, get up, dust yourself off, let’s just, we can get through it, get it done. Although, for other people, there’s love and compassion, and take your time, love yourself through this, you know, all that kindness. But for so long, and you said “grit,” I think that’s a great word for it, my expectation for myself and part of my identity lay in the fact that nothing’s gonna get me down, nothing’s going to stop me. I can fall over 10 times, but I’m going to get back up, and I’m gonna make it happen. I’m gonna go for the 11th. But in that, I think I succeeded in spite of that. I think there was a great cost to living that way the majority of my life up until now. And again, it was the leukemia that ended it, was Sage Robbins who so many times and in your own words, Sage, so beautifully expressed in it. There was like an acceptance of Siri, like you need to heal right now.

Remembering the Diagnosis

Siri, I remember we were in Sun Valley for that Thanksgiving 2019 when we got the phone call from you. Remember?

Yes, I do.

And I’m wondering, I remember I was kind of a third party in the conversation, but I do remember that Sage got on the phone with you. Yes, we didn’t talk about that we were going to talk about this in this podcast, but I wonder if either of you are willing to remember that fateful day, and I know that it was Sage’s intent right away to make sure that you loved yourself through this whole process and that you were about to witness parts of yourself that you maybe have never witnessed before. Would either one of you share what you remember about that day?

Support and Acceptance

Wait, you just hit it spot on because I felt that from you, Sage. I mean, I felt that so deeply, and you gave me permission in that phone call. Not that I should need permission from someone else, but I did. I needed permission to… because I think I started out the conversation, which I think was important, and I said, “Look, this is going to be my most beautiful triumph. This is not… this is not the end.” And I was all strong and all brave, and I seem to remember Sage, and I want you to share your side that you and Tony loved hearing that. I felt, but at the same time, it was like, “Hold on.” Like, you didn’t say it, but kind of like, “This is a big deal.” Yeah, I’d love to hear from your side.

Well, gosh, I certainly do remember that phone call, and Siri, I wasn’t offering anything that I haven’t walked myself. And I could hear in your narrative, in your story at that time, and I related because I have been there. I can push through, and I can, and I’m going to do this, and it’s going to be this. And yet, sometimes in that push, it doesn’t always create that sacred pause. And for my own health journey, I’ve certainly had certain health circumstances that have really humbled me as well. And each time, as I have healed, as I have shed sometimes patterns that were no longer serving, and I love how you communicated that of your own journey, of the acceptance of honoring the self, the parts of yourself or at least the voice that was maybe saying, “I can’t. I don’t know if I can do this.”

I remember you were at the hospital that time, and it was really… you were violently ill, with throwing up and so forth. And just touching upon that, because we all, I think that’s where it’s just so relatable for those that are listening. And I love that you shared your trajectory, your path because it’s a universal path for all, or at least those that resonate with it because we’ve all been in that place of feeling, “I can’t do this.” And we were just speaking about this actually on our own podcast just recently, allowing that to touch you because when it does, it can also reconfigure possibly some patterns that were no longer serving. And what I hear from you is, and what I remember, was that was a real birth of the energy flowing, allowing that energy to come back into you for you.

There’s so many people that speak about self-love and self-care, and it’s like, how do we do that? And that’s really how it’s done. It’s an invitation for what we’re extending. And it was because it was a must for you. You allowed what you so generously and graciously poured to so many were certainly the benefactors of. You’re a bright light, and it’s a gift to have you as a friend, a dear dear friend that we’ve laughed with, and we’ve cried, and we’ve shared some really beautiful moments, all of us. But it was beautiful to witness your own… the falling away of what was insincere at that stage for your own well-being and the birth of something more authentic. And I love even from that moment in that phone call, Mary, I’m so grateful that you shared that, because watching all that your timeline since that stage, since that phone call, and how you serve your own well-being. Well, first of all, thank you for those beautiful words, and that was the opening on that phone call with you. There was that opening, and like I said, it felt like suddenly I was giving myself permission. And I think up until I had always even… it’s an inclination I kind of had to fight a little bit, was wanting to take care of my wife and my mom. Here I’m the one that’s like, you know, stepping up to…

Rediscovering Love and Self-Acceptance

The biggest battle of her life, but my biggest concern was taking care of everyone else around me. I wanted to know that they were going to be okay. Yes, my identity for most of my life was, “I’m a light. I’m a love. I give, give, give. I’m never a problem, and I am never a worry.” And then I get given this diagnosis where, basically, maybe a 5 percent chance, apparently, of living. Of living, yes. And I thought that… and this disease, you know, it brought me to my knees. I mean, I actually thought, and I knew better, but I actually thought that because I was sick, I was weak. I certainly couldn’t achieve anything, couldn’t inspire people, couldn’t give, give, and give. I was on my hands and knees. All I could do was accept the help of others, receive. I needed to learn how to receive.

So, all the things that I thought made me lovable, all the things that I thought made me worthy, my ability to give and to please and then never be a problem and never be a worry, suddenly, I’m none of those things. So, I actually thought that the people that loved me, you know, in my mind, and we all have the potential to do this, I don’t care how far along we are on our path, you can still fall into the trap of thinking these things, and I thought, “My wife’s gonna want to leave me, or she’ll probably stay with me out of guilt, you know, people aren’t… they’re just gonna go away.” But what I found instead is that they loved me more than ever, yes. They showed me their love more deeply than they ever had. And what I realized for the first time in 50 years, for the first time in 50 years, I realized that I’m loved for my heart, you know, what a powerful gift that is. And in that, I became free. In that, I became free to love myself in that way too, to love my will to live, to love even more than ever, you know, the people in my life, my friends, the simple things, the little things in life, you know, it set me free. I was called to love myself and take care of me first, because otherwise, my ultimate mission at that time was taking care of everyone else. If I didn’t take care of me first, I would fail in what I thought was the most important thing to me, which was taking care of them.

Or you wouldn’t exist even more likely, that’s right.

Yeah, that’s right. You know how you define it, you know, the meaning that you give it determines how you’re going to show up, right? And if I had listened to the statistics, or if my wife didn’t tell me at the time, but if she had told me, and I said, “Oh my God, this is the end,” how would I have shown up? Yeah, maybe I’d be doing fun things with my family and telling everyone how much I love them, asking for forgiveness from people that I felt needed it. But by saying, “This is going to be my most beautiful triumph,” it put me in a space where I was going to show up, you know, ready to find every single thing that could make a difference in me surviving this. Like, it set me up for coming in with an energy, a curiosity, a desire to want to… you know, what do I need to heal inside of me? What do I need to let go? What is causing me dis-ease inside my body? Let me… I became so curious to heal from the inside out. But that only came because of the intention I set or the meaning I gave it, which was, “This will be my most beautiful triumph.”

Well, what will that require of me, future me, you know, the one that’s gonna survive this? What would she do? What would she believe about what’s happening right now? What would she focus on? Siri, on not accepting the end? What actions would she take? And even though, to be perfectly honest, like, even when I got the diagnosis, did I believe I’m gonna survive and thrive? No, God, absolutely not. I was terrified. My life was turned upside…

Rediscovering Love and Self-Acceptance (Continued)

down the suffering, shut down when we know we’re not supposed to be feeling something, and it’s like that’s how we talk to ourselves sometimes. And I think that… I would… my hallucination is that many folks listening, who are also kind of achievers or great athletes or successful business folks or whoever happens to be listening out there watching today, that with that comes this kind of harshness, this little whip that we use on ourselves, although we would never use it on someone else.

But I thank you for offering this lesson, and it’s just saying it’s so important for people to get. So could you talk to… do you see where I’m going with this?

And I totally do. And here’s the thing, for a long time, that was my superpower. This is my superpower, you know, something bad happens, well, just, you know, get up, dust yourself off, let’s just… we can get through it, get it done. Although for other people, there’s love and compassion, and take your time, love yourself through this, you know, all that kindness. But for so long, and you said grit, I think that’s a great word for it, my expectation for myself, and part of my identity lay in the fact that nothing’s gonna get me down, nothing’s going to stop me. I can fall over 10 times, but I’m going to get back up, and I’m gonna make it happen, I’m gonna go for the 11th. But in that, I think I succeeded in spite of that. I think there was a great cost to living that way the majority of my life up until now. And again, it was the leukemia that ended it, and it was Sage Robbins who so many times and in your own words, Sage, so beautifully expressed in it, there was like an acceptance of Siri, like you need to heal right now.

Siri, I remember we were in Sun Valley for that Thanksgiving 2019 when we got the phone call from you and back about your diagnosis. Remember?

Yeah, yes, I do.

And I’m wondering… I remember I was kind of a third party in the conversation, but I do remember that Sage got on the phone with you.

Yes, we didn’t talk about Siri on her crucial conversation w/ Sage that we were going to talk about this in this podcast, but I wonder if either of you are willing to… to remember that phone call. And I know that… I know that it was Sage’s intent right away to make sure that you loved yourself through this whole process and that you were about to witness parts of yourself that you maybe have never witnessed before.

I’m just… would either one of you share what you remember about that fateful day?

Backstory

What were you gonna say? You got a question? No, I was just gonna say, uh, one of the takeaways that really, Love shared with wife Rebekah, struck me, uh, from Mary this morning, uh, after she did a deep dive of these last couple of days in your book, uh, Siri was how you honored your wife back and, uh, you know, not only obviously that you love her so but also just really seeing her own journey and including that lens when you wrote that book because you saw her trajectory and shift from, you know, uh, the identity of being an athlete or triathloner and, um, they’re triathlete and so however you say that, a triathlon in all those different, uh, and the energy that that took to hold that up and then as life reconfigured and shifted and just how you really shed light upon her as another example, uh, never mind the love of your life and, and once again we know and, uh, Beyond love, uh, uh, back and so, um, I was just moved to hearing to perceive how, uh, you conveyed not only your love but how you perceive her, uh, she’s just, you know, from the very beginning, it kind of made sense but it didn’t make sense but there was just this knowing again like this faith that like this I just know I don’t want to live another day of my life without this woman in it and in that as we all know we all evolve over time so what brought us together, which was triathlon ended up being something and that’s scary because we came together through Triathlon, she was a professional triathlete, I was her coach, I know that probably doesn’t sound very professional but we fell in love so when Beck and I got together she was still racing professionally and I had just been on the Tony Robbins podcast with you Mary B and Tony peeing my pants on the other side because here’s my greatest mentor and it was this opportunity to say thank you, um, but after that you all invited us to an event to at least to power then and I just was like so excited I couldn’t believe I hadn’t been to an event yet I listened to everything read everything that I hadn’t been to an event and I remember saying it back back we’re gonna go to a Tony Robbins event and she was very reluctant to join me and but she came and I said look you can train all day I’ll be in the stadium or wherever we were and you go train and just come like when you’re ready so day one I’m in there like just loving every second she shows up with a couple of hours to go and she’s like, hmm, day two, you know, she trains a little less, shows up a little earlier, day three, she’s there like the majority of the day, day four, she’s like, this has changed my life and the reason being is that at this point in time in her career she, she’s been Racing for like 20 years and her body was breaking down she wasn’t enjoying it anymore but her identity, her worthiness lay in being a professional triathlete, she was amazing one of the best in the world one of the fastest Iron Man in the history and what this event did for her as she started leaning in a little deeper she started realizing that she’s so much more than just an athlete and I think so many of us put our identity in the work that we do and that’s it so if that work is threatened you know we feel like we’ve lost everything when identity really is like what else are you, yes, my love for her she has just been everything that I had dreamed of as a little kid you know I came from a family of divorce I, I can’t but I never lost my vision of what I wanted this loving relationship where we’re best friends and we do things together and we create things together and suddenly I have all of that and it’s the ultimate gift and it happened late I wasn’t in my 20s when I found her I was in my 40s and it’s never too late and I just feel so blessed so blessed to have her in my life thank you for sharing no thank you so much for for sharing that we love you and back and this is the part there’s You are more than a label there’s a passage in this book it says you write I’m quoting you I am gay I am straight does it matter does this really have to Define who you are as a human being don’t squash all of you who you are into a tiny label that is only one part of you who else are you are you.

Kind and Loving, Hard-working and Committed

Do you have a great sense of humor? Are you a philanthropist? Do you love helping others? You are so much more than your career, so much more than your orientation, your political party, the size of your bank account. I love how you broke that down, um, for so many reasons, and I love that about you, and I love that you are such a multifaceted, multi-dimensional being. Um, I don’t know, I just have this belief that that does not define, I just, I just want to be more than this one thing, and I think that we’re so lucky to live at a time when that, then we could have this whole interview and that comes up only in the context of tell me about the love that you share with the person that you share it with, you know, and I honor you for that, and I just, I would be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge um, that that one, that one piece about you because it’s something that I do, uh, I think it’s, it’s part of the reason why we share the Deep friendship that we do share, and I just love that you’re you’re just willing to to just be everything and more, thank you for that and we all can do that we all can choose that you know, I I Taking on the impossible see a lot of professional athletes that struggle with retirement for that exact reason that like that’s who they are and they haven’t become curious about what else they are like what else are you and and what else can you do now you know it’s like yes you were a professional athlete and now you are going to step into this passion so I think you know for me in the beginning I felt like being gay was a problem until I realized that nothing’s a problem unless you label it as such like I believe the story I wanted to live was that if I just am me if I’m fearlessly authentically me that that’s where I can tap into my fullest potential that’s where I can create Magic in my life that’s where I can find the love that I dream of that’s that’s where I can find joy and fulfillment so again what story are you telling about who you are and is that helping you take one step closer to everything you want or is a story that you tell about yourself taking you further away from everything that you want yeah that’s so true don’t you feel then the highest identity it’s like uh we’re all children of God and this is the person I love and this is how this is what I’m passionate about this is what I’m curious about this is what I’m interested in this is when I felt like I could this is what it looked like when I felt like it couldn’t and then it strips all those labels of whether it’s an orientation or preference even because we’re larger than that reality and uh then it’s then there’s that connectedness where we all meet uh and that true unification and I think that you’ve portrayed that so beautifully and um, powerfully so oh our little pup here is just uh Siri the kindness that you just offered in that answer to me I I just like I’m not I hope I’m not overselling it because that’s not what I’m trying to do but that same kindness that you feel in Siri shines through in the pages of this book and the question I can’t like the language that you’ve put to these prompts are they are that kind and that compassionate and that curious in that level it feels like a dear friend has their hand on your shoulder and they’re saying okay what do you want and what do you need to let go of if that’s really what you want and how are you going to become the person that can get that thing that you want and how are we going to get there because you do need to take responsibility like it’s just like You’re Made for This thank you thank you and think about you know it’s because it’s not just about finding a way it’s also you know how can you take on that um that impossible that thing that seems impossible that you don’t believe like oh well I can’t do that I mean think about back Triathlon me might come in dead last I don’t know how to swim I could have told myself the story that I don’t know how to swim I’m 23 years old geez I love this sport but it’s not for me how often do we do that like oh well I can’t do this I can’t do that so because of that I can’t be this or I can’t have what I want but tell yourself a different story and tell a story that you want to live not one that you don’t you gotta say hello to someone hi there my goodness Tony stops by and sends his love great to see you congratulations on your book honey and your new Farm Tony thank you so much I just love you so much and I’m saying your Footprints are all over this because your fingertips or I don’t know how to put it but your heart is all over it honey that’s what matters where’s your girl do I see her over there Hi I came back up when I had his voice how are you I love you guys how you doing back you I’m amazing you look amazing too you all just look at you glowing happy healthy strong and I want to thank you for taking this time I know how precious your time is and it just means the world to me congratulations I wanted to congratulate I’m heading into a seminar right now oh gosh you’re doing the seminar and you popped on here oh my goodness Tony you did not have anything late but I couldn’t stop and not say hi I just want to say I love you so much I love you thank you Tony I love you [Music] love you Siri uh it has been a treat uh to spend our afternoon with Sage signs off you hearing and learning about what guided you to the precipice and and the journey of writing this book uh so uh we’re just ever so grateful for uh you in our hearts and in our lives uh thank you for being one of the dearest friends that we know uh both you and your lady uh we love you and congratulations and for those of you that are listening um you know if you pick this book up that it blesses your life uh because uh this lady’s true thank you so much to both of you I just love you both so deeply and I am forever grateful for your impact on me as a human being and the love you fill my heart with so thank you both what a blessing to share um with everyone listening uh this book that means so much to me finding a way finding a way by Siri Lindley go get it we found our way to you and I’m grateful to God for that reality and uh we love you dearly God bless [Music] thank you